Friday, March 14, 2008

It's Friday...

but it sure doesn't feel like it. I don't know what day it feels like. I have been at home with two kids with strep throat since Tuesday evening. Our only outing has been to the doctor and pharmacy, which in my book is not like an outing at all. Today, the kids seem to be in better spirits, but the youngest has had a virus on top of the strep, so I am hesitant to take him out today. Our cupboards are terribly bare though, so I may be forced to chance a trip to the grocery store. At least they are no longer contagious.

Being inside for three days is making me a bit stir crazy. And I feel very, very behind on things. I am very much of a homebody, but not getting out at ALL does make me a little wacky -- know what I mean?? The kids seem to be craving fresh air as well. Good thing we have Spring Break coming up.

I have not been able to shower until noon for the past three days. That right there puts a damper on my day. I keep thinking, "Oh great -- today will be the day that I find out my neighbor turned me in to the show What Not to Wear or to Oprah for a makeover." Because my whole closet is basically an advertisement for "What Not to Wear". I have visions of someone with a big ol' camera at my door as I open it with PJs and bed head. Wouldn't that be nice??

Also -- last night my oldest son had a music concert at school. I feel like I'm always the one that has to miss things for one child or the other when their siblings are sick, so I told my hubby I really wanted to go and asked him to stay with the other kids. He agreed, but then I realized I should probably ask my son how he felt. Seeing as only one parent could attend, I asked him who he wanted to take with him. And guess what? He chose his dad -- and as selfish as it sounds, it broke my heart. But I couldn't let my son see it because he was terribly conflicted about choosing. He didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but he seemed to want time for just him and Daddy, so I can't fault him for that. But there was still that inner voice screaming, "What?! I'm the mom!! You're supposed to pick me!!!" It put me in a funk all night. I was just plain sad to miss him singing. I am quite sure it bothered me more than him. And I am also sure I was being overly sensitive due to lack of sleep and cabin fever.

Aside from feeling a little couped up, I am thankful my kids do not have something worse and they seem to be on the mend.

Alright, I've bored you enough for one day. I'm off for my noon shower (geesh!).

Have a fantastic weekend -- hope everyone at your house is feeling well!

6 comments:

Shalini said...

Oh! Rita,
I am in the same boat as you. Divya has viral on top of an ear infection. We are keeping her home and just 5 minutes of peace is all I ask for...
I totally feel your feeling with kids picking Daddy for the fun stuff and Mamma for the crying... my Daddy's girl does just the same. Hope you send in a recorder or something with hubby so the you can atleast be pseudo present for the concert.

Suzanna said...

(((HUGS))) sweetie!! If it makes you feel any better, my oldest ALWAYS picks his dad for everything, and when he's mad at me, he tells me he loves his Dad way more than he loves me.

Jayne said...

What a rough week! Sending a gazillion cyber hugs, just wish I could deliver them in person!

Carolyn said...

Oh no, you had two little sickies. I do hope they are on the mends now, and hope no one else gets the sickie germs. Sorry to hear about getting picked over for the trip to the concert, we probably could make arrangements, and you could fill in for me at one of Sarah's outings. LOL - I believe in those video cameras for home viewing, and now to convince dh that he is the best cameraman for the job. I would be set. I am so not a school program person, unless it is a sporting event. I think they are cute when they are little, but I so dread going to them. So you are welcome to take my spot anyday, dear. {smiles}
Gosh I didn't mean to type all that. Geez I must of had a little too much pepsi today. LOL
Hope you get out and get a little Me time, you deserve some.

Unknown said...

It's 2:30, I haven't showered on purpose and I LOVE IT!

Don't get down about the choosing dad thing...they will choose dad 9/10 because they just don't get to see him as much...dad's are just an anomaly sometimes. But, you know who he would pick mom if he were in bed puking his guts out...that's the true love.

Picture This said...

Yeesh, sick kids and Beatles Hoedowns and grocery baggers...the evil trifecta!!

Hope your week was better....and Happy EAster