Friday, August 22, 2008

Brain Power -- and the lack thereof...

The other day the kids and I were driving home after I picked them up from school. Some guy driving in front of me decided quite abruptly that he needed to turn left, so he slammed on his brakes causing me to do the same. It completely startled the kids.

My daughter pipes up from the back seat -- "Whoa Mom! That was crazy! And why didn't the airbag deploy??"

Deploy??? When did my six-year old learn the word "deploy"??? It didn't even sound normal coming out of her mouth.

When I questioned her on where she learned the word -- it should have been no surprise it came from a cartoon. There is a short on the Monsters, Inc. DVD that is called "Mike's New Car". It's quite funny and we've watched it numerous times. They say something about the airbag deploying and apparently, she retained that little tidbit of information.

Little things like this always remind me how much information our kids brains are soaking in all the time. My oldest son in particular seems to have bionic ears and can hear things we are SURE he can't possibly hear -- but somehow, he does and he remembers everything.

I'm almost envious of the kids. My brain, feels like it has gone to mush some days. My memory for certain things is good, but I have become horrible with names and I also don't retain a lot of details from books and movies. Things I know I learned in school escape me quite often too, like certain things about history and geography -- those types of things. It can be frustrating, but I suppose it's my own fault.

I am also COMPLETELY convinced that with each child you give birth to, you deliver part of your brain cells as well. Every time I've added a child to the household, my brain seems to have become foggier and foggier. (And certainly it can't have anything to do with me getting older, right????)

While we're on the subject of smarts...I just have to share the exciting news from our household this week. My 4th grader was invited to join the TAG program at school (which stands for "talented and gifted").

We are SO proud of him!!! This is a child who when he started pre-school had some issues with focusing, fine motor skills and a few other things. They suggested he had attention deficit and his pre-school teacher encouraged me to hold him back and told me he would always struggle if I didn't. It was a very hard decision for me, but I ended up deciding to send him on to kindergarten.

At the time, I wasn't 100% sure I did the right thing and he did end up having some struggles in kindergarten. It was probably when he was about six weeks into 1st grade that it all seemed to click and he was right where he needed to be academically. From that point on he has really excelled. He has worked so hard and I am really so proud of him. I hope you don't mind me sharing my excitement!

Hope you all have a wonderful Friday! Enjoy the weekend!

14 comments:

DawnW said...

Congrats to your "oldest". Sounds like he is doing great!

And as far as the brain cells lost during delivery...I don't think they need a study, it is totally true! My kids possess them now.

Suzanna said...

How awesome for your boy!! That is wonderful! I would be proud too!

And...
I've always said that I have gotten dumber with each child I had. I used to be quite intellegent, and I am pretty much a complete moron these days, LOL!

Paula - Buenos Aires said...

Yay! Congratulations!

Anil P said...

Congrats on his selection. It can be hugely motivating to be singled out for recognition.

Children grasp and remember things possibly because they take fewer things for granted. I forget to remember things as well, maybe somewhere someone is filtering things out :)

Jeanne said...

Congratulations to your son. You must be so happy for him Rita! Your daughter's comment is so cute. It is amazing what they pick up on.

Jen said...

Congrats on the TAG program admission. That's awesome news!!

Carolyn said...

How exciting about being accepted into the "Tag" program - Please tell him Congratulations from me and a That a Boy! I am sure you are one proud Mama! wink
Your dd is so darn cute! You know I am not sure how they come up with the words that they do, but they do, and when they do use them, it can be quite funny.

Anonymous said...

Your post cracked me up Rita! Giving birth to brain cells... oh dear that is funny! Kids get so much more information now than I did when I was a kid, its so crazy! I would never have known how to use the word deploy at such a young age... haha!

But on a serious note, THANK YOU so much for your kindness on my latest post. I appreciate it more than you know and I am thankful for your friendship! (Even though we have never met in person!) I needed your encouraging words and it has really helped me. So thanks!

And congrats to your son!! he's a cutie!

Unknown said...

Ryan is a little smartie and he has so many other wonderful attributes too.

It is a scientific fact that women lose brain cells every time they give birth...true story...we have to or how else would we ever have more than one:)

I don't think it's a bad thing..I think we just replace those brain cells with a whole lot more love...i would rather be made of more love anyway.

I am going to have to quiz my kids on the word deploy...Rachel is a cutie... I often feel bad that I am not teaching my kids enough while their minds are still so young and capable.

Oh well.

Anonymous said...

I am so proud of Ryan. He is such a good kid.

Yeah, the brain cells are gone for me. Thank goodness for the internet when the kids are doing homework. You forget how much you forget. LOL

Theresa said...

How great for your son, I'm sure the whole family is so proud of him. Kids take everything in, and given the right environment can come on in leaps and bounds, and as parents it is one of the most wonderful things to see. Congrats.

Nancy said...

Congrats to Ryan!!!!! And his mom.

Jayne said...

Whoohoo!!! Good for Ryan! What a proud mom you must be!!! You're bringing him up right!
PS....don't tell them about the birdy!

Anonymous said...

Hey Rita,
Take it from me, also. The brain cells are fried after 8 kids. On a daily basis I'm calling them the wrong name. I tell them to get off the computer when they are really watching tv and
tell them to take a shower while they are standing there wet with a towel on and hair is dripping wet.