And we are spending more time outside (when it's not raining buckets of rain!). My little guy insists on wearing his big brother's bike helmet -- and I have to say, it looks awfully darn cute. It's obviously too big and even if I try to put it on straight and make it fit better, he will push it to the side of his head. I guess that's his own little fashion statement -- the helmet tilt.
It's nice to have warmer temps and sunshiney days. But I am not anxious to wear summer clothes. I hate shorts. I hate swimsuits. Even way back in the old days when I was smaller and in shape I hated summer clothes. I guess I'm just not comfortable in them.
It's hard to believe how close summer really is. The kids will be done with school next month (wow!) and my boys will have birthdays. They are growing up entirely too quickly. Honestly -- as much as I wish for peace and quiet some days (really most days!) -- I also realize that some day, my house will be much too quiet. I'll probably be wishing for some noise (hard to believe!).
Isn't it funny when you're a parent -- there are times you are so anxious for certain phases or things to pass, but you don't really want the time to pass so quickly? I feel this way on so many levels with my youngest. He can be a real challenge some days. He's so different from the other kids at this age. His communication is not where it should be at nearly four years old and it can be so frustrating. Not just for us -- but I know it must be hard for him because there are times we just don't get what he's asking for or telling us. Potty training has also been a real challenge. The child eats next to nothing and somehow still manages to grow. And wow, is he strong willed! I get anxious for things to "get better" and keep thinking -- "hopefully by four or four and a half...definitely by the time he's five..." -- but then I also want him to stay little. He's got a sweetness that I just love and I enjoy our time together just me and him -- even when he's wearing me out. I don't want him to grow up and head off to school. I want to keep him here with me as long as I can.
I hope you are enjoying some spring/summer weather where you are -- happy Monday -- have a great week!
8 comments:
I am so with you Rita...they do grow up way too fast...even on the days that you can't wait to be over.
Bella is the same way, so you shouldn't worry about Nicholas. I was kind of chuckling when you talked about his communication. I was just saying to Bella yesterday, "Bella, use words, for heaven's sake..you are almost 5."
It is so easy to get frustrated with the third because life is just so busy...I don't think that they are really "behind" it is just that we are too busy to wait for their communication like we could with the others.
Yes, Rita you said it...I want the same thing. They can outgrow some of the phases, but don't get any older. I am sure you are seeing how your oldest one is acting a bit older now, isn't it sad. I have been thinking about this for some time, and I really like things how they are right now, and I guess having one who is legally an adult now, it just went by so darn fast. So I want this one not to age so fast, but it might be beyond my control...darn it!
what a cutie, love the photos!
N is sooo cute!! and yeah - they do grow up WAYYYYY to fast!! i can't believe i am already helping M pick out a prom dress and visiting colleges! she was just 5 yesterday and will be 18 this year! i hate the whole happy/sad feelings - happy for them at each milestone, but then sad that they got there.
Weather has been beautiful the past three days! So ready for spring.
I understand those challenging phases! I just keep telling myself there will always be challenges at every age and enjoy the present as much as I can. It's hard sometimes though :0)
I still say (and remember that he's 13 now so that's saying something) that 4 was absolutely the worst age with Jacob...MUCH worse than the 2 year stage and definitely worse than the teen attitude we have now. It's all downhill from here...you just have to get through this year. (((hugs)))
Such cute pictures! They do grow so fast Rita, I know that for sure with my baby just being married. Enjoy these days as long as you can. Glad you're having some nice weather. We've had a couple of good days that make me feel spring is here.
I love those pictures - what a fashion statement!! :) I've noticed the same communication thing with my nephews - the youngest is three and a half now and he doesn't talk as much or as clearly as the older two - I think the older siblings tend to talk more for the younger ones, so their communication doesn't keep pace with their age. Good luck with the potty training!!
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